What's really important to you?

Think about it carefully for a minute....

Now let me ask you this: WHY is it important to you?

Most folks miss this crucial step. They go about chasing what they think is important to them, without ever truly knowing "why".

Yet it's in the "why" that our programming can be found, and re-programmed to discover what we REALLY want, and actually GET it.

Consider this: when you grant significance to an event or circumstance, you are creating your future!

Most do this often and unknowingly, and that is why they do not get the results they want and lead unfulfilled lives.

Then they blame others, God, or the government for their predicament. Kind of ridiculous, isn't it? Yet I'm sure you know people like that, and you may have even done it yourself a time or two.

Here's an example: a guy who has done well for himself is lonely and wants a romantic relationship with an attractive lady.

He doesn't have much luck as he feels akward approaching women, but one day gets seduced by a gold-digger. She gives him great sex and then gradually increases her demand for the royal treatment - fancy clothes, fine dinners, etc.

If he holds out and simply wants to stay home and enjoy each other's company, she becomes sexually unavailable, cold and distant.

Something in his conscience tells him he wants the real thing and doesn't want to pay through the nose for a fake thing, so he bucks and it ends in a nasty break-up.

Based on his emotional response to this event, he Anchors in this belief: pretty women only want money, and you have to spend money to be with pretty women.

Have you ever head that one before? I bet you have, because you see - many of these false anchors get repeated, and when heard often enough become "common knowledge."

In the above paragraph I just told you how society gets hypnotically programmed! And knowing that, you'll be more careful HOW you hear, won't you? Is that helpful?

Now back to our friend: he now walks through life with this Subconscious Belief anchored in.

Whenever a pretty woman smiles at him, he grants significance to it as "she wants my money" and he spends his days lonely, eventually settling for a woman he does not find attractive, but feels is not after his money.

He feels unfulfilled and is not enjoying all that life has to offer, including beautiful women who are also trustworthy! (yes, they do exist)

You see, 99.9% of the population unknowingly grants wrong or undue significance to events and circumstances, and sets themselves up to lose as a result.

It could be anything at all - gas prices, the economy, your business competition, your financial choices, your mother-in-law, a fight you lost, an event you performed poorly at, or some mistake or misdirection from your past.

When you grant undue significance to these events you are giving your power away and missing opportunity.

Here's a more powerful way to deal with events and circumstances: compartmentalize them for what they ARE - simply an event.

Good or bad, it doesn't matter any more. It's just "what happened." Look at it like an old movie you watched.

By not getting over-excited about a success, your ego doesn't fly you too close to the sun and send you crashing down. By not dwelling on the mistakes of the past, you are freed up to take advantage of opportunities.

Start with a fresh blank sheet of paper every day and fresh thinking every day. If you have the same old piece of paper to write your life on, it wouldn't be very clear would it?

This is "seeing" in it's purity - taking a fresh look almost like a child would, rather than seeing through the filter of your baggages of bias, partiality and emotional interpretation of experiences.

This might be what the good book meant when it said "unless you be as a child, you shall not enter the kingdom"

So do not let an event, and your emotional interpretation of it, leak into your subconscious and become your Belief System. Make sense?

Instead, design a Belief System that EMPOWERS YOU and operate through it.

This is not "positive thinking." This is "powerful thinking that produces positive RESULTS."

I call it "Living by Design, rather than by Default."

So now the choice is yours: Do you want to go on living by default, or do you want to start living by Design?

If you're ready to Design the life that you want, the opportunity is right here. Don't miss it

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Yours In Warrior Wisdom,