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Living life on your own terms is a blast! Once you start living the Martial Mastery way, you'll never look back with regret. Your life will start to fall in to perfect order. Yes, I really do mean that. You'll find, as so many others have found, that you have more time and less stress, and more of everything you've ever wanted. Why is that? Well, as yet another example of the difference in Personal Power of those who know Martial Mastery, let me ask you this question: Do people drop in on you at your work or home, whenever they feel like it? Have you become a "hanging out" type of person whose time is so cheap and worthless that anyone can drop on in on you at THEIR will? By allowing "drop-ins" you constanly allow folks with "nothing better to do" to share 'nothing to do' with you. These interruptions can rob you of your vitality and energy, breaking your momentum and creative flow. I never get interrupted, EVER. The next of my Martial Mastery Warrior King Dream Life Rules I'm going to share with you is this: I Am "By Appointment Only" Make it part of your daily Mantra until it becomes as much a part of your lifestyle as breathing and sleeping, and you'll soon see your results multiplying like Manna from Heaven! Listen. There's no "dropping in" on me. And no one should ever "drop in" on YOU! Ultimately, the substance your life is made of is TIME, right? You only get a limited supply before you are dead, right? So therefore your time is the MOST valuable thing you have. If your time is valuable, why would you allow anyone, at any time, to simply "drop in" and interrupt it at their pleasure? Time and momentum are very closely intertwined. By years of developing a tolerance to drop-ins and interruptions, you lose enormous momentum and you unknowingly allow the course of your life to be altered drastically. Time, like monetary fortunes, is usually not blown in big chunks, but simply scattered and nickel-and-dimed away in small but constant increments. However, unlike money, time cannot be replaced (unless you've learned the Secrets of Time Distortion). The "no drop-in" rule not only goes for neighbors and friends, but for relatives as well, and most definitely for the general public and salesmen. The same thing goes for a ringing telephone. Why on earth would anyone allow a ringing telephone to interrupt what they're doing? The "no drop in" rule not only protects your time so that you are at peace and highly productive when you want to be, but it's also for the benefit of your visitors. By requiring them to make an appointment, you can give your visitors quality time, rather than simply tolerating them as an interruption. Make sense? Having this rule will keep those friends who are just "hanging out" out of your hair while you're focusing on training, learning, rest, work, mastering life and being productive, or even simply re-charging your personal batteries with some quality relaxation. Drop-ins and hang-out people unknowingly drain your energy like vampires. It's great to have down-time and fun, but the important thing is that your down-time is when YOU pre-determine or feel like it, not when someone else pre-determines it for you or when THEY feel like it. Does that make sense? You'll have to train people to comply with this. It may seem difficult at first glance, but look at the consequences if you don't: 1. You allow them to interrupt your flow, and your soul and progress suffer for it, your energy is dissipated and you look back on your life with regret. Or... 2. You do not allow them to interrupt your flow and your momentum and energy increases and you master your goals, while your friends either learn to respect your rules for you, or they get their feelings hurt and go find someone else to interrupt. Here's how to train those friends who you want to keep, who add value to your life, but don't understand the value of time. On the first drop-in, simply say "listen, I really WANT to see you, but you've GOT to call first so I can have time to hang out with you. I've got to go now, call me later and we'll set a time to get together." That should work half the time. The other half will drop-in again and you'll have to take it up a notch by saying "Hey, last time I asked you to call first. If you won't respect me enough to call first, I'm going to get pissed off." You never need to raise your voice or get angry. Just be calm, detached and "polite like a police officer." Any true friend or person that respects you will at this point gladly comply. After all, wouldn't you do the same for them if they asked you to call first before you came over? And for anyone who won't respect this most reasonable request? Well then it's time to re-evaluate that relationship on the basis of whether it is a Positive relationship or a Negative relationship. Some may try to mock you or laugh off your new policy for valuing the stuff your life is made of. Stick to your guns and they'll take you seriously. Some may accuse you of being "self-righteous" or "uptight." Those folks usually end up broke and with a fat ugly chick at best that they have no real soul connection with. Me, I am doing VERY well have the Loyally Devoted Lifetime Hot Babe Soulmate, so it's a good thing I decided to take control of my time! How about you? By the way, the same goes for door-to-door salesmen. I have a "no solicitors" sign on my gate & front door, and a fence, and a lovely large dog who is very protective of my time. If someone stupid dares get lucky enough to get past all that, the only audience they get with me is my boot in their ass. The same goes for business at my office. I don't allow drop-ins off the street. I don't care how much private coaching or product they want to buy, they MUST have an appointment, or they get turned away even with money in their hot little hands. If they don't respect our polite request for a pre-scheduled appointment, we don't want that type of person as a client. By enforcing the "no drop-in" policy, it allows me to help my clients even better by giving them the time needed, and it keeps me on track and in the Flow-Zone by not allowing interruptions to break my Momentum and siphon my energy. And in the long run I make MORE money by keeping in my center and not allow interrupters to break me off of it at their whimsy. Now YOU try it, you'll be amazed. At first, a few folks who have taken your time for granted will act hurt. But those who TRULY respect you will accept it, and honor your request. Those who won't honor such a simple and sensible request, well, they can take a hike. And you know what? I keep the same rules for others. I never drop in on anyone without calling first. By honoring my own rules with others, they won't be feel it is unfair when I ask them to honor mine. Remember, your life here is a precious gift, and you have also been given the precious gift of choice as to how you invest your time. You can do what you WANT with your time. You can accomplish an AMAZING amount with the short time we're given here on earth, that will absolutely ASTOUND you and others. The KEY is to AWAKEN to the fact that you ARE in control of your time. Start practicing this control and you'll soon be on your way. Monetary Wealth is gained by Multiplication. Momentum is a form of Multiplication. If you want true wealth in ALL areas of your life, the first thing you need to do is Master TIME. As you NOW find yourself ready for this in your life, GET Martial Mastery and it'll be like trading in your Model-T for a Maserati! You'll get what you want Faster, and that means MORE life to enjoy it in! Is that fair? Saving You Time to Multiply & Prosper in,
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